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Christmas in 4D - December

Christmas in 4D Christmas in 4D Christmas in 4D Christmas is a joyful time of the year for most but for others it is a time of sadness, loneliness, bitterness and unmet expectations. This month we are going to look at how we can make Christmas a time of joy, love and peace.

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Peace

Jesus is the referred to as the Prince of Peace in Isaiah chapter nine but there is often very little peace associated with the celebration of His birth. Today we are going to look at how we can bring peace back into Christmas.

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Love

"We always hurt the ones we love!" This weeks dimension is love. For most of us the most painful memories and moments in our lives have to do with the ones who are supposed to love us the most. We will look at what we can do love this Christmas like we've never loved before!   

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Contentment

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Forgiveness

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Momentum - November

Momentum Momentum Momentum Over the last two millennia millions of people have given of themselves; serving, giving, sacrificing so that those around them and coming after them would have a stronger foundation to stand on and greater blessings to enjoy. That Momentum has come to this generation and it is up to us whether to add to it and pass it on….or squander it. In this series we learn how we can be part of God’s Momentum and add to it for future generations.

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The Momentum Ignition

We begin the series by looking at the original spark of the Momentum – Jesus. The Church is His creation and His idea. When we understand it’s nature and purpose then we can embrace the mission that He has for us. It is then that we realize we are part of something very large and very important.

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The Momentum Multiplication

The early church picked up the baton and ran with it. They quickly gained a reputation for generosity, service and love for community. Real people with real jobs and real families and ithey changed the world. With them as a model we can put into practice their lifestyle and make a deep impact on our generation as well.   

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The Momentum Dedication

This church was INCREDIBLE. Their dedication toward God’s greater purposes far exceeded the economic limitations they faced. This church is an incredible inspiration for anyone who wants to do good, but is not sure how they can. With the proper dedication ANYTHING is possible.   

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The Momentum Decision

Life is filled with decisions. Better said, life is MADE by our decisions. We decide our attitudes. We decide our values. We decide how to handle our past and how to head into our future. In this message we make a decision on the role we will play regarding the momentum that was handed to us. Will we add to it and pass it on or ignore it and drop the baton? The challenge is before us and the giants of history along with God Himself stand in anticipation hoping we will choose well.   

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Momentum Celebration

We honor Thanksgiving weekend with a celebration of our own. Real Life Family Center has just gone through 5 weeks of intense growth and generosity. We will conclude this series with a focus on the gratitude of all that has been given to us along with the gratitude that goes with being part of something so powerful as God’s legacy.   

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What Good is God? - October

What Good is God? What Good is God? What Good is God? It's a question that many are asking in our nation, but it is rarely addressed in church. In this thought provoking series we will take a deeper look at some of the objections many have toward belief in God.

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What Good is God if He Does Not Exist?

Main Idea: In the opening message to this series we will tackle the very basics. If God does not exist then what’s the point of it all and if He does exist then why does He seem to keep Himself so well hidden?
Watch the Ben Stein / Richard Dawkins interview here
Watch the Ricky Gervais CNN interview here

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What Good is God when Life Hurts?

Main Idea: One of the most problematic issues people have with God is that if He is so good then why is there so much pain? In this message Pastor HR does a live interview with those who have endured great tragedy and loss and witnessed God’s goodness through it all.   

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What Good is God in Real Life?

Main Idea: Without God, life has no meaning or grand purpose. We didn’t invent the idea of God so our lives might have meaning, but rather God offers to infuse our lives with deeper meaning and higher purpose. In this message we will see God’s goodness in “real” life.   

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What Good is God When All Else Fails?

Main Idea: There are so many counterfeit "saviors." More than our comforter or our friend God is our Savior. When we need Him most is not really in times of tragedy or loss or loneliness, but when separated by sin. This is where God's goodness shines brightest.   

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The Power of We - September

The Power of We The Power of We The Power of We American culture greatly values personal independence and self-orientation, but if we are paying attention we would see that none of us gets anywhere without others. In fact, the smart person is aware that relationships are the single most important value in life. In this series we will examine the value of community and the power of unity. When we gather together around God’s vision and purpose for our lives we can change lives.

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weGrow

Jesus expects growth from us. He fully expects our relationship with Him to produce fruit for others. In this message we will explore not only Christ’s expectations for our growth, but how we can be fruitful and prosperous in our life.

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weConnect

There is NOTHING more important to Jesus than relationships. In this weekend’s message as we remember all those who lost their lives in the 9/11 attacks we will look at the powerful message of Christ’s death for us. Because of Him we can have hope and health.   

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weGive

God is the model of generosity and calls us to follow in His footsteps. In this message we will look at the life changing power of giving. When we give we show greater faith and dependency on God as well as becoming a tremendous blessing to others. Through giving we get to change lives.   

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weServe

In our culture we fight for and clamor for position and rank. Jesus makes it clear this is NOT a kingdom value, but humility and service is. As Jesus followers it is important that we learn to live the counter culture values of service to others. In this message we will be challenged to find ways to make a difference for others and add value to their lives. When we do so we also then add value to ours.   

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Pause - August

Pause Pause Pause In this series we are going to take time to "Pause" and look at those areas of our lives that we have forgotten and refocus on the things of God. This series is going to remind us why God created us and what our purpose here on earth is. So come join us this month as we pause and get our lives back into focusing on God.

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Pause to Pray

This message looks at the problems with prayer, the purpose of prayer and the pattern of prayer. We are going to pause our busy lives and look at what God’s Word says about prayer and why it is the Creator of all things wants a relationship with us.

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Pause to Worship

This week we are going to pause to worship! We will learn that worship is much much more than singing songs. Join us as we learn what true worship of God really looks like and how we learn to live a lifestyle of worship!   

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Pause to Learn

This week we pause to learn. We will look at why we need to be life long learners and how to become life long learners.   

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Pause to Rest

This week we wrap up our "Pause" series by pausing to rest! Many of us, like myself, feel that we have this part down, but do we really? Join us as we take a look at what God says about resting.   

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Untamed - July

Untamed Untamed Untamed American Christianity has gotten a bit bland, boring, monotonous, in a word…tame. That is not how we are designed. Faith was never meant to be tamed, but vibrant, alive and exciting. In Untamed we will look five members of the Bible’s untamed cast of characters to learn how to revive and unleash such a faith.

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Untamed Warrior

We launch the Untamed series by looking at a warrior named Jephthah and his "worthless band of rebels." From him we see that God picks some of the most interesting people to do great thing... why not you?

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Untamed Devotion

In our second week we look at Daniel. Daniel is a model of consistent devotion in the face of opposition and even death threats. From Daniel we learn the power of consistency.   

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Untamed Courage

Jonathan takes the leading role of week three. In a bold and daring military move we see him lead his army to battle. Jonathan teaches us how to lead with courage and boldness.   

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Untamed Voice

Moving into the New Testament for week four we are immediately struck by one of the most alarming figures in the Bible. The camel coat wearing, grass hopper eating, Pharisee blasting John the Baptist. His voice was loud and strong then and now. He gives us courage to speak for God.   

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Untamed Savior

We will wrap up the series by looking at and learning from the most untamed hero in all of history...Jesus. Jesus was not a tame religious leader, but rather an untamed revolutionary.   

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Versus - June

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Versus Versus In this series we explore the conflict we find when we try to bend God to our ideas of what He should be like. There is a growing rift between authentic Biblical Christianity and the modern Western version. In this series we try to identify and close that gap in our lives.

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My Way Vs. His Way

American Christianity says... "Jesus loved me so much He died for me", but Biblical Christianity says, "Jesus loved me so much He died for me SO THAT I would live for Him and bring Him glory." Jesus didn't come for me and die for me just for ... but for HIM! American Christianity says... "Jesus is a wonderful part of my life to bless me in all I do", but Biblical Christianity says, "Unless you are willing to pick up your cross and follow me you are not worthy of me." We launch this series by looking at the core differences between God's way and ours.

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My Security Vs. His Glory

American Christianity says... "Jesus loved me so much He died for me", but Biblical Christianity says, "Jesus loved me so much He died for me SO THAT I would live for Him and bring Him glory." Jesus didn't come for me and die for me just for ... but for HIM!   

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My Comfort Vs. His Purpose

American Christianity says... "God wants me to be happy and live in abundance", but Biblical Christianity says, "As you go into all the world make Disciples." In this message we would focus on using the resources God has blessed us with to reach the world.   

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My Strength Vs. His Power

If I am going to live out a Biblically authentic version of Christianity in my modern culture what steps should I take? This message will focus on distancing ourselves from "The American Dream" under our own power and embrace something better... Eternal Significance under God's power.   

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Plan B - May

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PlanB PlanB Have you ever looked at your life or an area of it and said, "It wasn’t supposed to be like this!" If you are like most people you have. Let’s face it, life often doesn’t turn out like we thought. Our "Plan A" is long gone and we are living out something very different... Plan B. What do we do then and where is God in the middle of these disappointments? Those questions and answers are the focus of this series. We will look at five Biblical characters who lived through their own "Plan B" and learn from them.

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"It's Not Fair"

"That’s not fair!!" We have all said it or thought it…many times. Overlooked for a promotion, left by a spouse, lose a loved one; all can shake our concept of fairness. We are not alone. Jonah certainly must have thought that when God gave him a very difficult offer he could not refuse. In this message we learn how to learn from life’s seeming "unfairness."

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"The Honeymoon is Over"

Buyers remorse. Post partum depression. The Honeymoon is over. All sayings that reveal a similar truth, after a period of initial excitement wears off we can often be left with unmet expectation that, if left unchecked can lead to much worse. In this message we look at how Moses dealt with this issue after their rescue from Egypt.   

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"I Deserve...!"

Rights and privilege and wealth... we all would like them but don’t realize how damaging they can be if left unchecked. In this message we look at the "entitlement" mentality and how it can undermine us when we don’t get our way. Absalom had everything and lost it all because of the I Deserve attitude. In our nation of rights and privilege and wealth we can certainly learn from him.   

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"When I Grow Up"

As kids we often dreamed of "what we would be when we grew up." Most of us never realize the fruition of those "Plan A" dreams and settle for what seems like something less. Joseph was a big dreamer as well and his dreams certainly didn’t turn out like he thought. After time as a house servant and then a stint in prison he finally sees God’s better dreams for him. There is a great lesson in there for us.   

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"Why is This so Hard?"

Let’s face it, we want easy. We want life to go smoothly with very little unpleasant surprises along the way. It rarely does. If God is so good and loves us so much then why is it so hard? In this final message we will look at Paul’s hardships and learn from his attitude and life. While life may be harder than we’d like it doesn’t have to derail us. We can actually be better because of it.   

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Intersections - April

Intersections Intersections Intersections We will travel with Jesus during the last few days of His life. We will see what He sees and meet who He meets. Five different moments in time. Five different encounters. Five different…Intersections. From each of these five moments in time we can learn something about Jesus …and ourselves. We can take a glimpse back into history and see ourselves.

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Jesus – An Intersection between Party and Purpose

One of the most important celebrations on the Jewish calendar…Passover. The meal was delicious, the music was playing, the wine was flowing it was a party. What they didn’t know is that Jesus had a much greater purpose for this gathering.

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Peter – An Intersection between Fear and Faith

Have you ever said something you regretted? Of course, we all have. Well, Peter did this same thing, but on a massive scale. He blew it big time. What happens when our faith comes face to face with our fears?   

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Simon – An Intersection between Passive and Active

He was just a bystander. In town for the big feast. He had made his journey for the celebration and now he is caught in the drama of religious and military upheaval. “Carry the cross” he is ordered. What do I do now?   

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The Cross – An Intersection between Death & Life (Good Friday)

Why do we call this Friday, “Good”? What is good about it? A very somber and tragic event. An innocent man is railroaded and sentenced to die. To please the crowd he is tortured then killed. Good? Yes, GOOD, in fact it is the best night in human history!   

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Thomas – An Intersection Between Questions & Answers (Easter)

I’d find it hard to believe myself. After all we saw Him killed and buried. Risen again?! C’mon!! Thomas gets a lot of flack for being the “doubter”, but I think we can all relate. Where is faith when we have so many questions?   

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CIA - Church in Action - March

CIA = Church in Action CIA = Church in Action CIA = Church in Action Our "CIA…Church In Action" series takes a look at the nature, purpose and function of the local church There are SO MANY misconceptions about the church. It is NOT a building nor limited to a weekend experience. The Church is the representation of God on earth and is the people, not the building. In this series we examine the roles and responsibilities of God’s people within a community by looking at four powerful metaphors.

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A Healing Community

...The church takes the role of a hospital in the community. A place of acceptance, diagnosis and healing of the greatest spiritual and emotional ailments that plague us. Where all our welcome and encouraged to embrace the principle and truths of God that lead to great health.

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A Learning Community

...The church also acts like a school in many ways. A transformed life begins with transformed thinking. In this message we look at the many ways the church community offers learning opportunities to the community at large.   

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A Strategic Community

...One of the metaphors the Bible uses of the church is that of an army. Armed with offensive and defensive weaponry we strategically take on all the assaults that would undermine our spiritual health, our families, and our community at large.   

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A Connecting Community

...Ultimately the church comes down to relationships. We don’t live on an isolated island. We are connected and the better we embrace and grow in these relationships the better off we will all be. In this final message we learn how to break down the walls that keep us apart so we can really grow.   

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ReDiscovery Network - February

ReDiscovery Network ReDiscovery Network ReDiscovery Network Our "ReDiscovery Channel" series focuses on relationships. Relationships are our greatest joy and pain. Our greatest source of fulfillment and disappointment. The quality of our life is determined by the quality of our relationships. Using Discovery Channel shows as our creative inspiration we focus on the nature of relationship and how to be part of their health & healing.

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Man vs. Wild

...We begin the series by looking at the “wild” of relationships. Often difficult, unpredictable, and untamed, relationships can overwhelm us. In this first message of the series we will learn the basic principles of “taming” the relationships in our lives.

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Mythbusters

...There are SO MANY misconceptions and misunderstanding about how relationships work. In this series we bust the top 6 myths of relationships and look at 6 biblical principles of how healthy relationships work.   

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Dirty Jobs

...Let’s face it relationships take work and we often avoid that work because it’s…well, dirty. In this message we will take a good look at how to deal with difficult people and how to tackle the necessary issues we often avoid to help make relationships work.

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Beyond Survival

...We don’t just want to “get by” in relationships…we want to THRIVE. In this last message of our series we will look the principles that help put our relationships over the top and truly enjoyable.   

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Vantage Point - January

Vantage Point Vantage Point Vantage Point Our “Vantage Point” series was the launch of 2011 and served as a reminder of the power of Vision. We often get “myopic” when it comes to our lives and often need to be reminded of the big picture from God’s vantage point. This series helps us see beyond ourselves and the greater life God calls us to.

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Do You See What I See?

...We begin the series by looking at ourselves from God’s point of view. Our worth, our purpose and our potential are all much greater than we often remember. It is only when we remember our true value that the past, present and future get clearer.

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Rose Colored Glasses

...We often do ourselves a disservice by not looking at ourselves realistically. We live in denial and thus limit our growth potential by not addressing the real issues in our lives. In this message we learn to remove those “rose colored glasses” so we can truly grow.

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As Seen on TV

...Watch TV any length of time and you will encounter products that are overpromised and under deliver. We want the quick fix, the fast solution and the easy way out. The problem is…real life isn’t that way. Growth takes work, change and time. In this message we address the unrealistic expectations that keep us locked in a holding pattern.

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Optical Illusions

...Not everything is as it appears and not everything that LOOKS good is good for us. We often follow our emotions and choose what feels good in the moment without consideration for the future. Whether it’s an outburst of anger, an unhealthy relationship or a piece of cheesecake we don’t often choose well. This message helps us develop a long term vision that gets us past those short term choices.

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Believing is Seeing

...We close this series with a reminder of the power of faith. The ability to see what yet isn’t and work toward what does not yet exist is a trait that very few possess and all can have. In this message we take a look at the opportunities around us and what we can do to create a better future for those who will come behind us.

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