Real Life Family Center

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That the World May Know – Biblical Videos

Wednesdays 7:00 – 8:30 PM
1501 E 128th St. Tacoma, WA 98445
253-531-0858
Carl Tankersley – ctankersley2@comcast.net

We will be watching and discussing videos on biblical subjects. This study teaches you about biblical events from the viewpoint and culture of the people in the Bible. We also go over other videos of similar interest about the Bible.

I started going to church when it was called Collins Community Church at 12 years old (1965). Over the years I have served on the Board of Elders and as the secretary/treasure. I have helped out in the youth ministries, taught in Bullfrogs and butterflies and the Royal Rangers and been a Sunday school teacher for many years. I am currently in the IT and community group ministries.

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Next Step

Tuesdays 6:00 – 7:30 PM
14609 24th Ave. E. Tacoma WA. 98445
253-548-0684
Steven & Joanna Oliver – oliverjoanna@hotmail.com

This group will review the message delivered by the pastor from the week before and go deeper into it. It is amazing how God works in each of us individually. During this class you will see how the message spoke to different members of our church body, and it will help us all to learn and grow together.

We have been married for 12 years and have four daughters. We have been attending RLFC for 3 years, but have led Community Groups for several years. We are passionate about teaching and growing through the Word of God and are looking forward to leading a dynamic Community Group that learns and grows together, encouraging each other along the way.

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Breakthrough

(This is a women's only group)
Mondays 6:30 – 8:30 PM
19528 71st Ave E Spanaway, WA 98387
Lina Asher 253-255-5005 – ltasher@comcast.net
Karen Spackman 253-846-9208 – karenspackman@comcast.net

Through this healing curriculum entitled "Breakthrough" women will learn to recognize the root of their hurt and pain and allow the Lord to heal that hurt. They will understand their identity in Christ. They will learn to walk in the victory that is meant for them as daughters of the King! We look forward to seeing lives changed and transformed through this 10 week course.

Lina: I have been a Christian for 18 years and have attended RLFC for 10 years. I am blissfully married to the love of my life and that funny guy, Pastor Troy Asher for the last 18 years. We have 3 amazing children. I am looking forward to being a part of the healing ministry at RLFC.

Karen: I have been married to Scott for 19 years and we have an awesome daughter who is 18. I have been going to RLFC for 4 1/2 years. I have served in Thrive, and the Women’s Ministry. Currently I serve on the prayer team and am taking INSTE. I also serve at Celebrate Recovery as a leader.

When the Game Is Over, It All Goes Back in the Box

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By John Ortberg
Wednesdays from 6:30 – 8:30 PM
9019 161st St Ct E Puyallup, WA 98375
253-845-8049 or 253-961-6775 – ccclowning@msn.com

Like cards and tokens at a board game's end, life's rewards - - - houses, cars, promotions - - - all get "put away" after we take our last breath. Discover how to make the temporary a servant of the eternal, and exchange "having" for the riches of being! John Ortberg's six sessions will help you leave this life with the only prize that matters.

We have been married for 43 years and have been attending RLFC for 7 years. We have two daughters and one grandson. Randy is a professional entertainer and Joyce works in the Admitting Department at Good Samaritan Hospital.

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Next Step

Thursdays from 7:30 – 9:00 PM
5316 203rd St Ct E Spanaway, WA 98387
253-847-0338
Donivan and Kelley Taylor – donivantaylor@gmail.com

This group will review the message delivered by the pastor from the week before and go deeper into it. It is amazing how God works in each of us individually. During this class you will see how the message spoke to different members of our church body, and it will help us all to learn and grow together.

We have been joyfully married for 10 years and have two children. Ethan is 5 and Eliana is 2 and a half. We have attended Real Life Family Center for 5 years. When not working, Donivan likes to read and play games, and Kelley likes to do photography, read, and do Zumba. We love to talk about what the Lord is doing in our lives, and we love to encourage others in their faith.

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Men are Like Waffles, Women are Like Spaghetti

by Bill and Pam Farrel      (This is a women’s only group)
Wednesdays 6:00 – 8:00 PM
613 S. Sheridan Ave, Apt A Tacoma, WA 98405
253-228-2100
Sue DeRome – susanderome@yahoo.com

Men process life like waffles. Women process life like a plate of spaghetti. This will be a fun and innovative approach to the differences between men and women.
Sue has attended Real Life Family Center for over 14 years. She has served in several ministries, most recently retiring from the ICU/Debt Reduction Ministry. Semi-retired from teaching and enjoying empty nest, she continues to pursue her passion for education and healthy families by regularly instructing a Parenting Seminar for Superior Court. She and husband, Fred, have been married for 7 years and greatly enjoy spoiling their four-legged
family member, Widgit.

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The Excellent Wife

(This is a women’s only group)
Thursdays 9:30 – 11:00 AM
17224 9th Ave E Spanaway, WA 98387
253-273-2955
Vashti Makupson – vvmakupson@msn.com

In the "Excellent Wife"Martha Peace paints a picture of what it means to be a godly wife in very practical and challenging ways. Please join me as we strive to be the Excellent Wife that God has called us to be. The challenge is great but the reward is greater.

I have been married for a little over 9 years and have learned some very hard truths about what God desires from me as a wife. In a world that comes against marriages and downplays the importance of what it is to be a godly wife, it's refreshing to get a godly perspective of what the role of a wife is.

Childcare is provided through RLFC Children’s Ministry

Romans

Sundays 10:30 – 11:45 AM
RLFC – Rainier Room
17708 28th Ave E Tacoma, WA 98445
208-599-0020
Tim & Jennifer Wood – woodtjjg@gmail.com

We are studying the book of Romans from the NavPress Life Change series. In Romans, Paul unfolds God's way to righteousness-­how we can be reconciled to God and transformed into the people He means us to be. Sin, salvation, grace, death, and resurrection-­no other biblical book illumines so many classic, life-changing truths.

We have been married for 22 years and have been attending RLFC for 2 years. We have two grown children attending college in Idaho. We are passionate about studying God's Word, applying it to our lives, and teaching others how to do the same.

Childcare is provided through RLFC Children’s Ministry

Foundations

Sundays 10:30 – 11:45 AM
RLFC – Creativity Suite
17708 28th Ave E Tacoma, WA 98445
253-221-5211
Dave Frlan – dfrlan@msn.com

Foundations is a 12 week course that covers the primary biblical principles of the Bible, God the Father, Jesus, The Holy Spirit, The Church and community.

I am a 12 year member of RLFC with a background in administration, organizational growth and small group development in the last 28 years of my spiritual walk. I am currently an RLFC Board member and involved in the Real Life Warriors Advance Leadership team.

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The Book of Colossians

Wednesdays 6:00 – 8:00 PM
3004 24th Ave. Ct. St. E. Puyallup, WA 98374
253-848-4769
Bill and Lola Thwing – lola.thwing@comcast.net

In the book of Colossians, Christ is highlighted as God, Head of the Church. Paul talks about our union with Christ and what Christ has done for us.

Bill and Lola have been married for 37 years, have 3 kids, 2 grandkids and relationships with many others who have been part of their household over the years. They are currently active in manyparts of Real Life Family Center and have been since its inception. They live in the southeast part of the City of Puyallup.

Childcare is provided through RLFC Children’s Ministry

The Book of Colossians

Sundays 9:00 – 10:30 AM
RLFC – Creativity Suite
17708 28th Ave E Tacoma, WA 98445
Bill Thwing

In the book of Colossians, Christ is highlighted as God, Head of the Church. Paul talks about our union with Christ and what Christ has done for us.

Bill has been part of Real Life Family Center since its start and is currently one of the Elder Board members. He is a member of the 301 Team, he is an alien to earth, sent here temporarily by God. He would like anyone to join this group, who would like to learn more about being one of God's kids and being His ambassador of grace and mercy to earth.

Childcare available

Men’s Fraternity

Mondays 7:00 – 8:30 PM
RLFC
17708 28th Ave E Tacoma, WA 98445
253-273-1928
Scott Spackman – scottspackman@comcast.net

As Men we face challenges daily. None more important than facing what has shaped our lives thus far. Having experienced the first year of Men’s Fraternity, we have the opportunity to invite other men to take the challenge of Men’s Fraternity, Quest for Authentic Manhood. We covered so much in the first year and made some significant discoveries along the way. Now we have the opportunity to come alongside a fellow brother to encourage and guide him through the Quest. The challenge: Be authentic, bring someone to Be authentic. We are going to laugh, learn and be challenged to grow. Ultimately, each of us is going to grow better in our understanding of what it means to be a Man. This will be time very well spent. Please invite your neighbors, co-workers, family and friends to join us as well.

Childcare available

Real Life Women Bible Study

Esther - It’s tough being a woman

Mondays 9:30 - 11:30 AM and 6:30 - 8:30 PM
RLFC - 17708 28th Ave E Tacoma, WA 98445
Renee Christensen – scottspackman@comcast.net

Esther: It’s Tough Being a Woman is a study of the Old Testament book of Esther. This study, written by Beth Moore, will guide us through tragedy and triumph, as we learn to trust in God's guidance and care for us even through the toughest of times.
For questions contact Michelle Stocking at 253-241-9301.

Childcare is available for ages
6 mos. to 17 years.

CELEBRATE RECOVERY

Tuesdays 5:45 – 8:30 PM
RLFC
17708 28th Ave E Tacoma, WA 98445
253-273-1928
Sheri Carlson – sherim@rlfc.org

All of life's hurts, habits, and hang-­‐ups are addressed through this one curriculum.

What do you need to Celebrate Recovery from?

Overworking? Overeating? People Pleasing? The need to control? Gambling? Abuse? Pornography? Lying? Hurtful relationships? Codependency? Procrastination? Drugs? Rage? Grief? Divorce? Guilt? Alcohol? Anger? Anxiety? Fear? If you can identify with any of these things, Celebrate Recovery is for you!

No childcare available.

Four Twelve

(College Age 18 - 24)
Friday 8:00 PM
RLFC 17708 28th Ave E Tacoma, WA 98445
Jesse Holcomb – 253-549-8601
Stefanie Holcomb – 253-293-4951

We are a group dedicated to the spiritual growth of young people. We see a need within our church and community for a group that extends what Thrive (our Youth Church) does. We are excited to see growth in our community and to impact those in colleges and in our church who are too old for Thrive and have nowhere left to go.

Josh Gonzales – 253-209-8175
Breezy Gonzales – 253-302-1706

Pacesetters

Joanna Oliver – 253-548-0684

Pacesetters is a group of age 50+ adults that meet once a month for prayer, fellowship in order to build relationships, find ways to invest in the younger generation, and have fun together.

 

Vision Statement

We will not rest until every marriage in our community has been restored back to God’s original design and equipped to reach one more.
Original Design:

• Naked & Unashamed
  Full Exposure, nothing to hide
  (spiritually, emotionally & physically)
• Unity
  Team focused
  (Recognize it’s not ME vs. YOU, but US vs. ENEMY)
• Intimacy
  Openness of heart.
  (Spiritual, Emotional, Sexual Intimacy)

Purpose Statement

Creating an atmosphere in which marriage is celebrated and honored, empowering couples to walk in:

• Unity – "Can two walk together, unless they are agreed?" Amos 3:3
• Commitment – "You therefore must endure hardship as a good soldier of Jesus Christ” 2 Timothy 2:3
• Community – "Be of the same mind toward one another..." Romans 12:16 We reflect the life of Christ through our marriages. "This is a great mystery, but I speak concerning Christ and the church." Ephesians 5:31

We reflect the life of Christ through our marriages. “"This is a great mystery, but I speak concerning Christ and the church." Ephesians 5:31

Team Leaders

Danny and Vashti Makupson

We have been married for 9 years. We are a blended family with 7 kids (6 of them still in the home) and 1 grand baby. We have been attending RLFC for almost 4 years. We desire to equip husbands and wives with great tools that have helped us to learn more about ourselves and each other in this journey called marriage.

 

 

Small Groups

Focusing on building unity through community, as we celebrate God’s design for marriage. Our hope is that you would be excited about growing together by joining one of our 3 small groups: